• paf0@lemmy.world
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    8 hours ago

    A number of people who I have known to have that mindset faced a lot of hardship growing up. They had so much working against them for so long that it’s hard for them to see instances when they have control or to understand when some things are actually their fault.

    • Elaine@lemm.ee
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      1 hour ago

      This exactly, the person I am thinking of fits this description. They just seem to mostly blame their troubles on others.