MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net to ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish · 5 months ago"It wouldn't be a problem if you weren't so lazy"slrpnk.netimagemessage-square6fedilinkarrow-up1417arrow-down111
arrow-up1406arrow-down1image"It wouldn't be a problem if you weren't so lazy"slrpnk.netMelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net to ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish · 5 months agomessage-square6fedilink
minus-squareMelodiousFunk@slrpnk.netOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up32·5 months ago What is the problem? how is the problem effecting me? Whats the simplest way to solve the problem? My interests do not align with “productivity.” Everything required for survival is a massive drag mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Stop playing the rigged game Drugs, mostly.
minus-squareKiosade@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up13·5 months agoJust don’t try to apply those steps to a problem an SO is having… sometimes they just want to complain and have someone listen.
minus-squareflughoernchen@feddit.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up16·5 months agoIt’s totally valid to ask: “Would you like my advice or would you like me to just listen?” It shows you actually care about the person and that it’s okay if they just want to vent. But you’re still there if they want and need help.
minus-squareKiosade@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·5 months agoThank you, I will take that to heart :)
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Stop playing the rigged gameDrugs, mostly.Just don’t try to apply those steps to a problem an SO is having… sometimes they just want to complain and have someone listen.
It’s totally valid to ask: “Would you like my advice or would you like me to just listen?” It shows you actually care about the person and that it’s okay if they just want to vent. But you’re still there if they want and need help.
Thank you, I will take that to heart :)