Another player who was at the table during the incident sent me this meme after the problem player in question (they had a history) left the group chat.

Felt like sharing it here because I’m sure more people should keep this kind of thing in mind.

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    Im kind of ambivalent on this.

    On one hand, ~medieval times, which are usually the general era and technology level the average fantasy setting plays in, have no concept of disability and people who have one are usually ostracized and/or begging in the streets. Blindness may be on the more tolerated side of things, but deformities or developmental abnormalities are definitely not accepted. Also, if there is magic why wouldn’t they use it to cure it?

    On the other hand, it’s a fantasy roleplay setting and the primary function is to be fun. So if everyone agrees it shouldn’t be a problem to have a scenario with it, more power to you

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      I don’t know where people like you get their ideas about medieval times, but even if you confine your view to a fairly narrow part of history and the world you’re still wrong… Disability was a huge part of life as one would imagine of a relatively violent and hard world with little medical technology. Blindness, deafness, muteness, lameness, mental illness and physical deformity were all facts of life then as they are today even if the causes and treatments were not as understood. Varying degrees and types of what would now be called disabilities were very common among the peasantry and less common but much better cared for among the wealthy.

      https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disability_in_the_Middle_Ages

      Heck, the Hapsburgs inbred themselves to extinction over several hundred years along with a host of physical deformities.

      https://historicengland.org.uk/research/inclusive-heritage/disability-history/1050-1485/disability-in-the-community/

      While of course there is a storied history of monasteries sheltering the sick and disabled and of leper colonies, most people with disabilities in medieval Europe lived within the community, working where they could and being supported and cared for by their community and families where they couldn’t. Begging obviously was where some ended up but was not the default.