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minus-squareEelBolshevikism [none/use name]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up18·edit-24 months ago truly smart people don’t have to tell others they’re smart There are situations where this isn’t true, especially if you’re neurodivergent or something where people just assume you’re stupid Edit: also the phrase de-normalizes being confident in yourself which seems unhealthy
minus-squareGaia [She/Her]@lemmygrad.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·4 months agoDef happens all the time with my interviews. The IT world in my area is filled with people who think I joined the field for the meme, or because I just looked up a list of good-paying jobs
minus-squaresquidlar [it/its]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·4 months agoyes & no. if someone assumes you’re a dumbass, saying “I am very intelligent actually” is unlikely to help. But you shouldn’t be afraid to prove it.
There are situations where this isn’t true, especially if you’re neurodivergent or something where people just assume you’re stupid
Edit: also the phrase de-normalizes being confident in yourself which seems unhealthy
Def happens all the time with my interviews. The IT world in my area is filled with people who think I joined the field for the meme, or because I just looked up a list of good-paying jobs
yes & no. if someone assumes you’re a dumbass, saying “I am very intelligent actually” is unlikely to help.
But you shouldn’t be afraid to prove it.