• DarthFrodo@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    That’s probably because you criticized their behavior (in a rather provocative way), which is often perceived as hostile and leads to downvotes.

    • haui@lemmy.giftedmc.com
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      3 months ago

      I’m autistic so pardon my ignorance but when did I criticize anyone? I literally said An thats why I support anti speciesism. and llinked an article and quoted it. You know, the thing that therapists show you: lead by example, send “me” messages as in say what you (would) do instead of criticizing the behavior of someone else. I’m genuinely baffled. Can you elaborate?

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        3 months ago

        People often react badly when you show them a mirror to their own hypocrisy. It causes a psychological disturbance called cognitive dissonance.

        Please keep doing it.

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          3 months ago

          Ok… thanks, I guess. :) I didnt recognize i did it. Did I mention I was beaten up in school a lot. The reason was mostly this but I dont get it. If you tell me my opinion is trash I usually check if I went wrong, no harm in that.

          Anyway, have a nice day or night.