I was there, I saw the thread. @TheDude, did you? It was pretty strongly in favour. Do we really need to keep waiting around to see if an instance administrated by a guy who wants to declare “cis” a slur is going to turn out okay?
https://sh.itjust.works/post/216888 for context.
Why don’t we put it to a vote?
We did.
There. Done. Or it should be, if the objective of the server to be administrated based on votes is honest.