Because the implication here is that she thinks having sex with black men is more degrading/humiliating and getting beat up by them is like, more “savage” or something than other races
My liberal friends all disagree with me and thinks I’m kinkshaming, being racist myself, or invalidating her “preferences” or something (which I think is usually also racist, having racial preferences unless there’s some shared culture/experiences)
race play is definitionally racist. it’s in the fucking name. i don’t know that it’s anyone but her partner(s) problem if done with boundaries and consent like a normal kink though
I know kink communities like to deploy the “don’t yuck their yum”/“no kinkshaming” kinda thing, but that’s on the shortlist of “kinks”(really stretching that term here) I’m Absofuckinglutely going to judge. Like, if I can’t trust you to not slip a hard-r in the sack you do not belong between my sheets
Race play is one of the few yums the kink community considers yucking to be OK, at least in my area.
some people take “don’t yuck” as like an immunity to criticism, i thought it was just like, don’t harrass someone who isn’t hurting anyone. we don’t have to protect partakers from the implications and social context. schoolgirl outfits being a product of inappropriately sexualizing teens is not a discussion an adult schoolgirl-outfit-fan deserves to be insulated from
I’ve known people under that umbrella across a couple different cities to wield that exactly as ‘immunity from’; hence why I don’t typically fuck with kink communities like that anymore