how are yall doing this week? ive been pretty stressed myself but good things are around the corner. come chat, vent and joke! em poc only thread.

  • OrionsMask [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    5 months ago

    How do you cope with the fact that the majority of the white world seems to take great joy in devaluing and dehumanising us? Sometimes it just seems like too much to bear without becoming uncontrollably violent.

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      1. White people are the world’s minority. The vast majority of the world is POC. People of NATO are the minority.

      2. This self-important minority is losing their grasp on global hegemony, and their decline is inevitable. There will be a time when people talk about England in the same way people talk about Madagascar, and this will happen a lot sooner than people think.

      If you’re talking about your personal life, it really boils down to not hanging out with white people so you aren’t exposed to their bullshit. This is obviously a lot easier to achieve if you live in an ethnic enclave than if you live in an area that’s like 85% white.

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        I’m speaking generally. What really set me off yesterday was the animals who were crying over hunting dogs being killed in Gaza. I love dogs, but they cheer on the mass deaths of brown-skinned civilians and children whilst crying for a beast trained to murder. That’s how little they value the lives of POC.

        Thanks though, your words are comforting. Unfortunately IRL it’s hard not to engage with white people on some level, I’m surrounded by them at work, and a lot of people I socialize with are white too. The contempt they have for POC shows through though, even with co-workers, even with friends, even if it’s minor. It feels like it’s in their DNA. It makes me sad but I’m getting to the point where I can’t trust any white person.

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          I don’t think it’s in their DNA, but human populations can take a lot of things for granted. It’s certainly in their culture and I feel like comparative cultural psychology is understudied when it comes to whites vis a vis other populations in the imperial core.

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            One of the exerts from Columbus’ diary in A peoples history of the United States mentioned that the Native population on Turtle Island were docile and friendly, then he said they would make good servants. It’s fascinating how evil the culture is and has been, even to their own before whiteness was created.

            • Pluto [he/him, he/him]@hexbear.net
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              Well, I agree, but I try to work with everyone, despite their ancestral history.

              I think what you described is, of course, very much a problem and we have to fight against that.