i feel like it’s such a big part of my life but i don’t talk to anyone about it… i’m about to go to bed and i stroked myself to orgasm so many times, shot so many loads out… sometimes i wake up in the middle of the night horny and fuck my pillow before i fall asleep again… it feels so good and i feel so connected to my body… i love being horny and have no one to share it with haha…

what’s your favorite ethical porn… i feel like lemmy nsfw is alright about it, tho probably not perfect… i think i’ll sign up for kink.com, i think it might be the only ethical porn site with hard enough porn for my tastes… oh well, it be like this

gngnngng i’ll read replies tomorrow sometime

  • Droggelbecher@lemmy.world
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    11 days ago

    Have you tried easing into the topic with close friends? For example, by talking about the ethics of porn. That’s how it started to be a topic with my friends. We dont really talk detail, but we discuss what techniques work and recommend toys, for example.

    My fav ethical site is ersties btw.

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      10 days ago

      some of my friends are open to it but it’s pretty sterile and devoid of details… so i wanna engage on a deeper level. although i don’t really know what that means! and i don’t want to come off creepy/weird/porn obsessed like i apparently did to another commenter LMAO 😭

      sourcing good ethical porn might be a good topic of conversation tho, i’ll try that. thanks for the rec, too