Hi sissies! I’m a 31yo enby-presenting bi bottom in a town with no gay bars, nightclubs, BDSM events, or regularly-scheduled LGBT groups/meetings. It’s really churchy, but nobody has punched me in the face for crossdressing yet, so it’s tolerant enough by my standards.

In a place like this, how do you find cuties to do gay sex things with? I’m interested in master/slave dynamics, bondage, impact play, anal, cnc, pretty much anything. I just don’t like old bears. Which is a problem because the only bros who seem to be into me are in their 60s, and they don’t even try to look good, they’re pudgy slobs. How do you hack it out in the country?

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    5 months ago

    I don’t want to be rude or anything but, for a 31yo trans female I believe your standards are still high, I am male and as I see the people I know, no one of that age will date a trans female unless they are complete simps, and as I see it according to your original post I believe you don’t want a simp, if you want a straight male you will have to lower your standards. anyway what comes to my mind it’s some kind of anime(otaku) convention. I believe the easier way is just starting street hooking , wish you the best babe.

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      5 months ago

      I’m not transfem, I just crossdress sometimes. And also, I would sooner date a transgirl than a cis girl any day of the week. I’m not straight, and what you’re saying only applies to straight people, and even then only the homophobic variety.

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        Ok, I’m confused… anyway… wish you the best I hope you find someone who match your taste… sorry but I am not too much into the LGBTQIA+ hype.

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          May I ask, why are you posting on the sissies board if you have so much internalized homophobia to call LGBT stuff “hype”?

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            5 months ago

            That’s a good question.

            I believe I subscribed this community cos I thought there was sexy trans women here but I was wrong

            TBH I didn’t feel like I’m homophobic, I believe trans women are women, but maybe you are right and sometimes I see trans women as cis women.