Hi sissies! I’m a 31yo enby-presenting bi bottom in a town with no gay bars, nightclubs, BDSM events, or regularly-scheduled LGBT groups/meetings. It’s really churchy, but nobody has punched me in the face for crossdressing yet, so it’s tolerant enough by my standards.
In a place like this, how do you find cuties to do gay sex things with? I’m interested in master/slave dynamics, bondage, impact play, anal, cnc, pretty much anything. I just don’t like old bears. Which is a problem because the only bros who seem to be into me are in their 60s, and they don’t even try to look good, they’re pudgy slobs. How do you hack it out in the country?
I don’t have any answers, but just wanted to say of course wanting someone around the same age isn’t too high of a standard.
Are there any (maybe slightly bigger) nearby towns that are better?
An hour by train gets me to a major city. However, the gay scene there is just a slightly scaled-up version of the backwoodsy culture I’m already in. Most guys are actual baby boomers. Most will say “Oh, you live in [town]? Why?” Fucking income levels, bro.