She has her in profile she’s gay and taken and she still has weirdo creepy lurkers on that sub dming her and trying to hit on her.

Like one time a dude messaged her 'What’s up? I’m 6’1." Trying to dick wave like she’d be impressed

Do all subreddits geared towards women have latent incel creepers stalking profiles?

Pretty gross lurking as a creeper dude in a place where people go looking for advice about their body.

    • FearsomeJoeandmac [he/him, he/him]@hexbear.netOP
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      That sucks. I’ve always been friends with you and talked about monster hunter without feeling the need to be like ‘sup bb’ I know you are they/them also.

      I’m sure it has something to do with growing up with little sisters that’s helped me not like… view women as like… pleasure boxes like some deeply disturbed guys do and see they’re sentient beings with agency like myself.

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        I’m sure it has something to do with growing up with little sisters

        Interestingly there is a bunch of research into birth order and psychology showing that both men and women differ in behaviour based on having older/younger brothers and/or sisters. For example I remember some research showing boys with older sisters are less competitive.

        Anecdotal but it’s very obvious that people with sisters are different in behaviour to those without them. They have a less misogynistic vibe going on. This is offset though by the fact they’re also well practiced at being annoying in ways others aren’t rofl. Can always tell when a guy has practice annoying their little sister because they carry it into the way they interact with other women like their little sister.