I just lost all will to respond to someone and had to share their comment. Here is the relevant part:
The oligarchy itself is patriarchal. Just count the number of female world leaders.
If we live in a patriarchy, it’s a very gynocentric patriarchy. There are lots of programs to help women. No one is stopping women from being leaders.
You heard it here first: patriarchy is all about women!
yeah female wasn’t the best choice of word in my original comment
Of course! Such an elegantly simple solution!