That ended with me finally explaining to him how the way he and my mother treated me as a child, with undiagnosed (and really not even conceptually understood at the time) ADHD caused me lasting trauma that persists to this day. I’m a 45 year old man, and I cried.
I’m 43. I feel you. Lately I started processing what happened to me because of ADD. I’m lucky, fell on my feet and have a good life but I’ve lost so much time and was misunderstood for so long.
This is such a perfect way to put it
Can’t decide if I fell on my arse or on my head.
Keep rolling until you get to the feet! Lol if only it were that easy, but hope you can find some improvement