Any general advice? Don’t try x, or definitely look into y? Be aware of Z?

  • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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    10 months ago

    Gods,the though of chest hair on breasts…

    Oh, don’t sweat that. There’s a lot of different ways of dealing with it. Waxing, shaving, laser, electrolysis…

    Other than that, landing androgynously nonbinary is an option?

    Only if you’re non binary…

    • Blahaj_Blast@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      10 months ago

      🤷‍♀️

      3 months ago I didn’t give being cis a second thought 😅 who knows really. I do have a book about identity I really need to work through though.

      • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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        10 months ago

        Heh, yeah. There is no easy road here when suddenly you’ll have all the answers. But ultimately, the whole point of the journey is to give yourself permission to find who you are, however long that takes :)

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          10 months ago

          Insightful and helpful as always Ada 😊

          “giving yourself permission” I have been realizing that, slowly I’m finding stuff I’m ok with or like and only able to come to the conclusion that I just wasn’t allowing myself to whatever.