Now why do I get the sense that outbursts like this are the exact reason why “The Will to Change” actually needs to be read by the whole forum

Over reacting. There is no possible way to solve a problem without talking about what the causes of it are.

I also don’t agree with you generalising incels as simply all being neurodiverse people, they’re not, some might be but the majority? I don’t think so. It also means any criticism of incels is ableism and frankly I entirely disagree.