• leftytighty@slrpnk.net
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    1 day ago

    If you value attractiveness above all else, sure. I like my life partner to be a similar level of maturity and to have similar life experiences. It’s not illegal, but it’s telegraphing a lot about his values and mindset.

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      1 day ago

      I know what you mean. I’m currently dating someone 6 years younger than me, and while we’re both technically Millennials, I have so many childhood experiences that she simply cannot relate to. She doesn’t know any 90s references, never had to use dial-up internet, and her first gaming system was a Wii. Some of my high school memories are her middle school memories, but for the most part she relates more to Gen Z than I ever could.

      I love her but I wish we were closer together in age.

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      Ya it’s pretty clear he just wants to fuck. I guess that’s cool and all. But surely there is more to life than just fucking? Shrug what do I know.