• Classy@sh.itjust.works
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    4 hours ago

    I think the amount of people who either (1) do not know the term to be gender neutral or (2) purposefully use it as a gendered term to anger people is less than 1%, honestly.

    I live in a pretty conservative area, and I’m not exactly a leftist either, and I’ve never seen guys used in any way other than just as a generic for “you all”

    it’s also just not important enough to die on a hill for

    Cool, so we agree it’s silly to get so strung up over it, huh? Of course people tailor their language, it happens constantly. If someone is going to go out of their way to construe a perfectly normal part of speech as me being malignant and demand that I change my behavior for their benefit I’m going to tell them to fuck off, personally. If someone is respectful and asks tactfully…sure, I’ll adjust for them. Though internally I’ll be judging them for being a snowflake.

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      2 hours ago

      It matters more to them than to you that’s the whole point

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        47 minutes ago

        How does a snowflake screw in a lightbulb? They hold the bulb, and the whole world revolves around them.