• Universal Monk@sh.itjust.works
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    12 hours ago

    Yep! Wait until you have kids that are older than your co-workers.

    Source: My kids are older than many of my co-workers. It sucks.

    The only way to fight it is to stay fit as fuck. Oh and retire early like I did. Takes some of the pain out of getting older!

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      12 hours ago

      Exactly my plan my friend! Why bother grinding if you can’t afford anything? Better grind less and live more.

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        11 hours ago

        Agreed. I basically took early retirement–I’m 55.

        My pension is small since I bailed early, but I have zero debt, and very few bills, so I get by just fine. My kids are grown. My house and cars are paid off. Property taxes here are very low.

        Sure, I won’t be traveling the world, but the park next to my house is beautiful, and I can see the mountains from my front porch. All is good.

        Good luck to ya, mate!

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          9 hours ago

          Hell yeah, that sounds like the way to do it. I’m much the same way, being a decade younger and having a kid that will be 18 in a decade. If you are able, why not make your own home into your favorite place to be?

          I don’t have mountains to look at but I built a koi pond in the back yard. There are a lot of birds in the trees out there, plus we have a bunch of other pets of our own. Just chilling and observing natural beauty and being in that moment can be so nice.

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            9 hours ago

            You’re on your way brother. The children being grown when you get to the decade that you retire is the big game changer I think. I love my kids, and I actually thought about having more a few years ago, but financially just wasn’t something I could wing.

            Plus I worked in an elementary school for my last few days of work, so they sorta all became my kids. And I still volunteer there, so it’s worked out for me.

            Now, if my kids would have kids so I could at least have grandbabies, then hey! All the better! lol