There is now an Actually Infuriating community on Lemmy! Post things that are beyond just mildly infuriating. It’s only mildly infuriating that someone didn’t make this sooner!

Actually Infuriating

    • LandedGentry
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      9 hours ago

      Robust =/= prescriptive and you let everything fly that doesn’t meet those criteria. Specificity becomes a cage very quickly.

      • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nz
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        9 hours ago

        Good. Moderators need limits on their powers. You should need to make the cage bigger in order to deal with the edge cases. And when you make the cage bigger, the community should have an opportunity to question that. That’s anarchy. That’s responsibility.

        It’s better to have an unmoderated community full of trolls than a community with tyrant mods. That’s the same philosophy as “it’s better that a hundred guilty go free than one innocent is imprisoned”. Obviously a community with good mods is best, but if mods can’t follow their own rules, they shouldn’t follow no rules.

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          9 hours ago

          The entire point of making a community and being a moderator is to establish a rule set and to use the tools available to you to run the community. If you don’t like how they do things, go make your own and run it in your idyllic, naïve way.

          Askhistorians works because it’s ruthless. Yet do you see people complaining about “power tripping mods” over there? No, it’s considered one of the best subs if not the best. The quality is virtually unmatched. And that’s because they have a very firm, decisive hand. This whole “power tripping Jannie” caricature is simply propagated by people who get banned from communities for not following basic rules and etiquette. If you don’t like the community, leave Make your own. It’s very easy to do that on Lemmy, Reddit, wherever you go. The best, longest lasting communities are typically heavier with their moderation than the baseline. And the ones that are too lenient barely make it a year.

          • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nz
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            9 hours ago

            Ruthlessness is good, and responsible ruthlessness requires following through on your own intentions and the rules you created for yourself.

            It’s like how Batman doesn’t kill. He decided that was the line and he sticks to it, even if it’s hard. Because he knows giving in would be worse.

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              8 hours ago

              I agree with this comment. I do not agree with the previous comment.