• Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Its such a shit situation. If you want out, you generally need to get a job in another country. A job in a different country generally pays significantly less than the cost of living in most of the USA, so you need to already have a significant amount of money already saved to even consider it an option.

    Most of us are just fucking trapped.

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      And in the case of the EU you probably aren’t getting in unless you’re highly credentialed. For all their shit talking they sure hate large-scale immigration.

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      Maybe I’m missing the point, but COL in other countries is also only a fraction of the US’s. We don’t live in hunger and squalor over here, you know. Plus, to move, you won’t need significant savings.
      No, the real issue, as with all migration from high- to low-wage countries, is that you cannot easily return for retirement because you’re not going to be able to save enough for the US’s housings prices or rents.

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    Called my mom last night, told her to renew her passport asap.

    Most people are like “the waters warm, this is nice, what are you going on about???” And I’m like “hi yes this water is scalding hot and about to boil we need to get out!”

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        That was under the previous administration… musk is hollowing out federal jobs so I bet the wait will be tough. Especially as more frogs realize that the pot is boiling…

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    Inside the pot: slowly boiling water

    Outside the pot: raging inferno that is heating the pot

    When given the option to slowly boil, or jump into a raging inferno, I think most people would think twice about jumping out of the pot.

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      Pot boiling and the raging inferno are both in America. Go and explore, the world is more peaceful then you think

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        I understand, but like lots of people in America I was born here and have have had my wages suppressed because of multiple “once in a lifetime” financial crises to the point I can’t afford to travel, and therefore I can’t afford to immigrate.

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        Having no choice people think we can just jump ship (or I guess the pot) when they don’t realize the people who can’t do it at all because there chained to it

        For instance trans people can’t get passports or renew them meaning they have absolutely no way to leave.

        We need to stay and help the disenfranchised instead of jumping ship

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          How so?
          Geniunely don’t understand how being trans prevents you from getting out?
          I’d assume when being asked about your sex, I’d just swallow the pride (no pun intended) and say what the sex at birth was to get the paperwork done. As soon as ones out it won’t matter as much anyway.

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            This is not the case. Trans people are being denied passports of either gender marker as officials “wait for clarification” on the new rules. Furthermore, passports are being confiscated.

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              But even in your source, which does explain the circumstances (which are bad), they mention how it needs to be under the sex that is on your certificate.
              I only see an issue with it if you are in-between getting the identification modified as the gears of beaucrarcy grind very slow (ignoring constant interruptions by unecessary policy changes)

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                I only see an issue with it if you are in-between getting the identification modified as the gears of beaucrarcy grind very slow

                Or, you know, you live in a red state that fights tooth and nail to not update that information, all in the hopes that this day would eventually come.

                Updating your vital records is a state level item, and the process will vary by state, and that’s a requirement to get it changed on your Federal passport. Please don’t forget that a large amount of states have been trying to pretend these people don’t exist, and now the federal government is trying to help make that a reality. For an example of the difficulties as reported 3 years ago:


                States requiring proof of surgery, court order or altered birth certificate to change gender marker on driver’s licenses

                Georgia.
                Guam (U.S. Territory).
                Iowa.
                Kentucky.
                Louisiana.
                Northern Mariana Islands (U.S. Territory).
                South Carolina.
                Tennessee.
                Texas.

                States requiring proof of surgery, court order or altered birth certificate to change gender marker on birth certificates

                Alabama.
                Arizona.
                Arkansas.
                Georgia.
                Guam (U.S. Territory).
                Iowa.
                Kentucky.
                Louisiana.
                Missouri.
                Nebraska.
                New Hampshire.
                North Carolina.
                North Dakota.
                Wisconsin.

                States barring residents from amending their gender designation on official documents

                Montana.
                Oklahoma.
                Tennessee.
                West Virginia


                I’ll note again that this was 3 years ago, before the massive wave of anti-trans legislation in the last couple of years.

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                  Hm ok. but again: What prevents me from just not doing the whole passport changing thing in the US and staying X/Y for now, acquiring the passport, getting out and immigrating somewhere else doing and do the whole paperwork there instead.

                  Please don’t take this as an ignorant take. I am neither a US citizen nor trans but interested and feel for my fellow friends on the other side of the pond.

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    As an American who just emigrated, I guess I jumped. I can still vote from overseas, but I’m pessimistic about the future.

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    This would imply that they’re not surrounded by other pots filled with water which is (varying degrees of) boiling. We don’t really have a Socialist Utopia meeting spot, let’s say.

    Beyond that, eloping requires a not insignificant amount of money (as a Romanian, I can say that homes/apartments aren’t cheap here, either, and we’re not exactly L.A.)

    And at the other end of the line, immigration’s not exactly thought of with fondness, even in Europe. Don’t forget, we’re stewing in our own pot even if the heat’s still relatively tolerable.

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      This is a problem I’m having now with my boyfriend. I want to get out of the US and he says, “Where? Everywhere’s falling to fascism right now. And it’s hard and expensive to emigrate.” It doesn’t help that he also thinks it’s not worth it to think about leaving until the water’s actually boiling and he has verified it.

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        Your boyfriend is right. Unless one of you has an in-demand technical degree or a lot of money, immigration to Western countries is going to be out of reach. That leaves you with weakened economies which are either already authoritarian, or trending authoritarian. Even if you could get to a place like Europe, far-right parties emboldened by their new U.S. support are rising in popularity and receiving centrist support in places like France and Germany.

        There is no green field to relax in while the rest of the world collapses. You’ll have to fight to prevent the slide to fascism wherever you go.

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          True - it’s the rising tide right now and probably for humanity’s future since we’re on a sinking ship globally. I do have the benefit of working for a global country and a boss who’s already told me I can transfer to whichever country I pick that they operate in. But he’s not as optimistic for his own job needs, and it’s still about choosing a country that could possibly just let us die in peace before it also goes to shit.

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    Isn’t it for all animals. If you keep slowly increasing temperature their body temperature will more easily come to equilibrium with outside temperature than it will if you just put them to hot boiling pot?

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    People from all over the world are trying to get into this boiling pot. Despite America’s flaws, very few places are better alternatives when you look at economic opportunity and political rights. It is popular to trash on America now because who is president for the next four years but there’s also only so many things he can do with an executive order and Congress isn’t a fast moving engine.

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      Have you ever travelled? Scandinavia is miles better than the US, as is Iceland and most European countries I have been, too. Cleaner, safer, no guns, free healthcare, better welfare, maternity leave, minimum 4 weeks holiday and so on and so forth. Yes you get a lot of immigrants but so does everyone else, America is not special in that regard. It was a decent country to live in before Trump but now not so much.

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      Drank the Koolade huh?

      The US has been looked-down upon by the world for a long, long time. Now we’re just starting to feel bad for you.

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      I hope America will have democratic elections in four years. But I won’t be surprised if it doesn’t happen.

      Trump is a fascist, has both chambers and the supreme Court behind him. At best, it’s going to be a very dark four years for minorities, women and poor people.

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      You’re out to lunch, musk is couping the government and breaking it on purpose.

      The technofascists want their fiefdoms and they’re trying to kill most of us so they can rule the rubble. Curtis yarvin, look him up.