I’ve been moving myself and my friends and even clients to Element, but I recently came across blogs about them helping onboard German, US armed forces, and NATO. This is shared with pride everywhere. And Element also goes so far as to say that they “choose who they work with” and not just everyone. And how they don’t work with governments sanctioned by the US, EU, and UK or governments that might “cause large scale harm” or something to that effect. But NATO is a harmless puppy I guess.
I’m so conflicted right now. This is both a rant post and an ask for advice and suggestions.
The Synapse drama is actually game over for Element/Matrix IMO. Move your friends to DeltaChat. It’s not a pain in the ass, it’s really snappy. XMPP is better for replacing the Matrix chatroom here for instance. I don’t have the energy to explain the drama or why. Go to the main Delta Chat developer’s fediverse page for more info
I’m not sure how robust it is as I have used it little, but Movim (an XMPP social media service akin to ActivityPub) seems like a much better option than Mastodon, various blogging services, and most IM apps. Really easy to have encrypted social media and then have a publicly shareable link through it. Check it out