• Lmaydev@programming.dev
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    1 year ago

    In my experience people who talk about the good old days are white and male.

    It was a time when they got their way 100% and everyone else could get fucked.

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      More likely it was when they were kids and without adult responsibilities, or narrow/whitewashed views of the past(as from stories and shows from before their birth)

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        I look back at my childhood as the ‘good ole days’ mostly because of the no responsibilities thing. The more I learn about what stuff was really going on in the 90’s/2000s, the more I see there was no good ole days, just times when I was insulated from the harsh realities of the world.

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          I hold similar views(obviously), but I find something comforting in it. Like, rather than living in a ruined paradise lost by us or our parents, we live in a complicated world where we share the work of trying to make something better with our ancestors.

          (Of course, we also have to figure out how to do that, and, in a complicated world, that can be challenging and lead to conflict)