.Totally agree. Love how you sumed it up. Honestly abortion is just all around shitty in my opinion. I don’t feel like women should be ‘proud’ to have them but I also don’t feel like they should be 'ashamed 'either
It’s not a form of birth control. I really like how you take responsibility for everything. Because I would say my number one issue with the abortion talk is people don’t hold men accountable to this kind of stuff. It’s always 100% on the woman. Like a woman can’t get herself pregnant like there’s two people involved here what the fuck?
Why does she have to have all the shame but he just gets to skip town and pay the equivalent of an electricity bill in a one bedroom one bathroom apartment and child support for 18 years? I feel like that’s kind of getting out easy in my opinion
And I know not all guys but some guys are definitely pro-abortion because it gives them the option to get out of the relationship Scott free. It’s an easy out and it’s fucked up to the girl because what the hell is she supposed to do think or feel? (GUYS PULL THE FUCK OUT WHAT IS FUCKING WRONG WITH YOU?)
Sorry I’m not hating on you one of my female cousins went through this about 10 years ago and I was with her every step of the way. It wasn’t late term I think it was 2 months but she was in a really bad relationship like the guy was abusive he was put in jail a couple times for beating her unconscious and she had nowhere to go.
I at the time couldn’t support her because I was also struggling in my situation
So like that always makes me think, what about women in those situations? I mean honestly? I feel like if the abortion is before the heart starts beating then that’s the time that you should get it.
Because yes at the point when it starts beating that’s a fucking human being and the woman is attached to it emotionally and biologically there’s nothing she can do to like extract the baby and put it in a scientific laboratory tube and give it life and a family after that I don’t know if that makes sense there’s all kinds of emotions and shit involved that the guy doesn’t experience in my opinion.
Sorry I’m babbling now. My point is there should be restrictions on abortion. But I also don’t like how on the conservative side people preach about encouraging single motherhood and stuff but yet where are they when the kids are born? Especially for women who give birth to kids with disabilities. Where the fuck are you then? Like let’s get real here and stop with all the fancy talk and throwing fireworks and glitter in the air and shit like it’s the next best thing since sliced bread** be fucking honest**
That girl or woman needs to know damn well what she’s getting into for any decision is made
I’ll admit there used to be a banner in front of a church in our city that sort of pissed me off. It was one of those “choose life” posters, and it showed an upper middle class white guy with a rolex and a polo shirt playing in the grass with his wife and his kids. It’s like “Well it’s really easy to say that when you’re Mr. Senator over here, get back to me when someone’s life is difficult”
It’s safe to say that abortion is the final step along a long line of things that need to be changed in society leading up to the moment of the abortion. We need to bring back honor and duty for men because they do need to be prepared to take responsibility for their actions and they need to refuse to take actions they’re not willing or able to take responsibility for (and that means kids shouldn’t be having sex, because they can’t possibly support and raise kids). Both men and women need to be more careful about who they have relationships with and sleep with.
My little sister has had to deal with a lot of bad stuff over the years from guys she’s been with. I’m really proud of her because (between her and her husband) they have 6 kids and are doing everything they can to raise them well on pretty normal blue collar jobs. As for the guys, we really gotta bring back getting the boys together and beating a motherfucker to within an inch of his life when he’s being a piece of shit.
.Totally agree. Love how you sumed it up. Honestly abortion is just all around shitty in my opinion. I don’t feel like women should be ‘proud’ to have them but I also don’t feel like they should be 'ashamed 'either
It’s not a form of birth control. I really like how you take responsibility for everything. Because I would say my number one issue with the abortion talk is people don’t hold men accountable to this kind of stuff. It’s always 100% on the woman. Like a woman can’t get herself pregnant like there’s two people involved here what the fuck?
Why does she have to have all the shame but he just gets to skip town and pay the equivalent of an electricity bill in a one bedroom one bathroom apartment and child support for 18 years? I feel like that’s kind of getting out easy in my opinion
And I know not all guys but some guys are definitely pro-abortion because it gives them the option to get out of the relationship Scott free. It’s an easy out and it’s fucked up to the girl because what the hell is she supposed to do think or feel? (GUYS PULL THE FUCK OUT WHAT IS FUCKING WRONG WITH YOU?)
Sorry I’m not hating on you one of my female cousins went through this about 10 years ago and I was with her every step of the way. It wasn’t late term I think it was 2 months but she was in a really bad relationship like the guy was abusive he was put in jail a couple times for beating her unconscious and she had nowhere to go.
I at the time couldn’t support her because I was also struggling in my situation
So like that always makes me think, what about women in those situations? I mean honestly? I feel like if the abortion is before the heart starts beating then that’s the time that you should get it.
Because yes at the point when it starts beating that’s a fucking human being and the woman is attached to it emotionally and biologically there’s nothing she can do to like extract the baby and put it in a scientific laboratory tube and give it life and a family after that I don’t know if that makes sense there’s all kinds of emotions and shit involved that the guy doesn’t experience in my opinion.
Sorry I’m babbling now. My point is there should be restrictions on abortion. But I also don’t like how on the conservative side people preach about encouraging single motherhood and stuff but yet where are they when the kids are born? Especially for women who give birth to kids with disabilities. Where the fuck are you then? Like let’s get real here and stop with all the fancy talk and throwing fireworks and glitter in the air and shit like it’s the next best thing since sliced bread** be fucking honest**
That girl or woman needs to know damn well what she’s getting into for any decision is made
I’ll admit there used to be a banner in front of a church in our city that sort of pissed me off. It was one of those “choose life” posters, and it showed an upper middle class white guy with a rolex and a polo shirt playing in the grass with his wife and his kids. It’s like “Well it’s really easy to say that when you’re Mr. Senator over here, get back to me when someone’s life is difficult”
It’s safe to say that abortion is the final step along a long line of things that need to be changed in society leading up to the moment of the abortion. We need to bring back honor and duty for men because they do need to be prepared to take responsibility for their actions and they need to refuse to take actions they’re not willing or able to take responsibility for (and that means kids shouldn’t be having sex, because they can’t possibly support and raise kids). Both men and women need to be more careful about who they have relationships with and sleep with.
My little sister has had to deal with a lot of bad stuff over the years from guys she’s been with. I’m really proud of her because (between her and her husband) they have 6 kids and are doing everything they can to raise them well on pretty normal blue collar jobs. As for the guys, we really gotta bring back getting the boys together and beating a motherfucker to within an inch of his life when he’s being a piece of shit.