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      can you please stop kinkshaming people and shaming people for having a raunchier or more fetishistic gender? you can thank the people who “strangely” sexualize shit like bondage or leather for your rights today as a queer person. these “weirdos” are the ones who will actually fight for your right and for your very existence as whoever you want to be. if you want to be close minded just because a gender is raunchy and naughty, then do as you please. but I would like it if you, instead of commenting, took some time and analyzed the idea of downright dismissing someone’s gender because it’s a fetish. dronegender people aren’t the ones who take away human rights left and right; cisgender heterosexual people, the ones whose genders aren’t what you view as a “fetish” do. this stuff is absolutely harmless to you and to the people who engage in it. for many people, being part of a wider swarm can, in fact, wound a part of their personality disorder which quite literally affects their ego and their sense of self-worth, both as the leader or the follower of the swarm. and if it can help people be better, who are we to judge and ostracize them?

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          I have been lurking this community for a good amount of months and was a bit shy to make an account, to be honest. I am a rather shy person and do not know how to get a proper footing within a community but when I saw the amount of prejudice against some gender you don’t even know, I knew someone had to speak up against this. I knew I couldn’t stay silent any further. I knew I had to make an account just to speak up. Everyone who is oppressed and harassed deserves someone to stand up for them and to assure them they are safe and well. Everyone who does not do that is an awful person. I don’t want to be an awful person. I can’t be the bystander any longer. Fuck, I was so angry that I just didn’t care about doing anything else, in fact. I am so abhorred at the lack of standards in this specific post that you made me pretty much make an account just to stand up for this one random person. I’m just a silly corvid from a silly system.

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              to make that judgement, you’d need to know that person’s typing patterns and their general points. it is fairly obvious from the way I type that I am different from that person. I am far more impulsive and reckless than they are, and I could make that judgement based on looking at how they structure their words, because I am not a dumbass. also, if it’s 3AM, you can go to sleep instead of harassing intersex people. thank you!

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                  TIL quoting someone and addressing it is “typing like someone”. TIL capitalizing your initial words in a sentence is “typing like someone”. also of course they blocked you, you insufferable asshole. you’ve been bad faith, and I don’t want to do anything with you. adieu, and do your work. have fun!

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