Hello Polyam Comrades hexbear-polyam

Hopefully your week is starting off well. To help foster a safe and inclusive space for polaymory discussion, we wanted to provide weekly discussion topics! The goal is that we share our stories and our experiences, listen to each other, provide safe space for each other, and learn from each other. Please ask questions and provide answers in good faith only, let’s be the wonderful communicators I know we all are.

This week’s discussion topic is: What Does Polyamory Mean To You?

This is a pretty broad topic and should provide a great baseline for future discussion. I’m excited to hear what you have to share!

Please feel free to use this thread to suggest future discussion topics as well, ideas you have to foster a better community, or feedback you have about the community.

  • dolores_clitoris [none/use any]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    11 months ago

    Sorry for the late reply.

    spoiler

    Regarding your first paragraph, in a just world, none of those events should be happening to anyone.

    Second paragraph: if everyone is “fully consenting”, that would mean every person involved is excited to move forward, which negates the idea of ownership somewhat. You cannot consent on behalf of your spouse. The terminology of “swapping” partners is problematic, but that terminology doesn’t undo the full consent you are presenting as a “best case scenario”.

    Finally, if the term “swingers” attracts the worst people, what term do these queer folks use to attract the right people? During play, what are the right people doing differently to the swingers?