Welcome to the polyamory community on Hexbear! Please stand by as we figure things out.

If you have ideas on things we can do to build engagement in the community, help provide a framework for safety in the community, or any other ideas that you think would contribute positively to the community, please post them here so we can get things going and ensure that this community is a healthy and postive one for everyone. Thank you! hexbear-polyam

    • TheDialectic [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
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      11 months ago

      In theory it is easier to be poly. Since no partner had to be your one and only life mate you don’t have to be as strict about finding a high percentage match. I have had partners that I could not have had a monogamous relationship with. However in a lower intensity setting were healthy and fun situations in their own way

      • bigboopballs [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
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        11 months ago

        In theory it is easier to be poly. Since no partner had to be your one and only life mate you don’t have to be as strict about finding a high percentage match. I have had partners that I could not have had a monogamous relationship with. However it they were healthy and fun situations in their own way

        I thinking I could be cool with this. However I am struggling with the inability to get even 1 date problem like the parent poster.

        • TheDialectic [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
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          11 months ago

          Yeah, I don’t know the specifics but I feel like alot of people are complaining about this alot more just recently. There are the usual sources of societal alienation bit I think there was just recently another shift to make things even worse.