I have had a tendency since my earliest days on social media where I will get halfway or more through a response, and end up just cancelling it. Sometimes I feel like I’m just being to over the top with snark or otherwise don’t want to be that kind of person, but a lot of the time I’ll decide I just really don’t care enough to finish it. Sometimes I just know it’ll be an argument and I know what the person is going to say, and just have no interest in continuing the discussion. I did it on Reddit, I did it on bulletin boards, I even did it in my teens and twenties on Usenet - and I’ll probably go on doing it for as long as I continue using this medium. I probably do it a bit more than half the time. I know that lemmy benefits from more content and I have had some great discussions, but sometimes it’s just not worth it for me.
How about you? Do you hit publish or cancel more often?
I delete probably half of all posts/responses I start (across many accounts). Sometimes it’s because I realise the answer to my question while typing it but more often than not it’s because I realise what I’m saying is ambiguous/opinionated and I get too anxious about someone taking it the totally wrong way and getting offended or annoyed.
Annoyingly this gets in the way of a lot of my online communication. Either that or I realise no one cares what my opinion is… Unless they directly ask- thanks OP!