• FiniteLooper@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    It’s like when I want to see what time it is so I pull out my phone, look at the screen, and put it back. Then I realize I didn’t actually look at the time so I have to do it again.

  • DustyNipples@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I feel like I’m so preoccupied with trying to act like a normal person my brain can’t save new data.

  • Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    In my experience, it’s literally impossible to recall someone’s name after you ask them what their name is.

    That’s science, of some sort…

    • Em Adespoton@lemmy.ca
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      1 year ago

      The way to remember it is to immediately use it after they say it, either just repeating it, or using it in the next sentence. And then use it again when you say goodbye to them.

      There’s no guarantee it’ll stick, but it’s much more likely than just trying to remember it.

  • Empyreus@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I actively try to be better about this now, asking waiters or people you come across in every day life helps build the habit.

  • JIMMERZ@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    “Remember their name, remember their name…”

    Person says name.

    “…remember their… wait I missed it!”

  • Thelsim@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Or what’s even worse, when you only remember half the name and keep wondering if you heard “Eve” or “Eva” and just mumble your way through pronouncing their name every time.

  • SoGrumpy@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    The trick is to ask them their name. If they reply “Smith”, then you say “Yes I know it’s Smith, but it seems I can’t recall your first name”, so he says “John”. Or if he says his complete name straight away, you say “Yes I knew it was John, it was the Smith I couldn’t remember”

    Bingo, you have their complete name. Works the other way round too.

    • gogozero@lemmy.sdf.org
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      1 year ago

      if germane i like to ask how their name is spelled in case i need to email them later. then i dont need to admit i forgot or until then never cared to know

  • Altima NEO
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    1 year ago

    I’m the same way. It takes me a few tries to remember names

  • reflex@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    What works for me is I ask for both the first and last name, and then I end up forgetting the last name.

  • Cabrio@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I’ve been working at new job for a month, this week is the first week I remembered all 5 of my immediate co-worker’s names. It took me three weeks before I got a grasp on my boss’ name.