Tragic is facing love and not recognizing it, unconsciously suppressing reciprocity. “All You Need Is Love”, The Beatles sang. Not quite. When the reproductive organs do the “thinking” all one needs is lovers. Like alcohol or money, it is prone to addiction, beyond distracting, destructive, and eventually leads to sadness.
Being mysterious might be good on first dates but it’s not great for internet posts, especially in communities about advice/help. What are you talking about?