Hello Polyam Comrades hexbear-polyam

Hopefully your week is starting off well! Sorry for not posting over the holidays, my brain wasn’t functional enough to do it, but here we are back at it in the new year. To help foster a safe and inclusive space for polaymory discussion, we wanted to provide weekly discussion topics! The goal is that we share our stories and our experiences, listen to each other, provide safe space for each other, and learn from each other. Please ask questions and provide answers in good faith only, let’s be the wonderful communicators I know we all are.

This week’s discussion topic is: Ask That Burning Question You Have!

Maybe you’re new to polyamory and are unsure about something and need some clarifications, maybe you’ve seen polyamory in a movie and are wondering if that’s how it really is, maybe you’re a polyam pro but need a suggestion for a better calendar app than google calendar to manage your various polycule schedules (this is me someone please help me I’m overwhelmed by my google calendar right now I’ve got like pod’s pods on there and it’s not helpful anymore).

Please feel free to use this thread to suggest future discussion topics as well, ideas you have to foster a better community, or feedback you have about the community.

  • Frank [he/him, he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    10 months ago

    Yeah. I’ve had one relationship that lasted about a year. We broke up because she wanted kids and I was cursed by god with genetically inherited severe mental health problems and can’t have kids (if you were wondering why I’m always talking about killing god). She was moving away and it was a natural point to end things. Hurt a lot, but we mutually agreed it was a good time to end things. We didn’t keep in touch but last I hear she was doing well.

    Had another relationship that went about 18 months but broke down due to a bunch of factors. My partner was having serious problems with her other partner as their relationship fell apart, she felt a lot of stress and pressure to support me (again, mental health problems, attack and dethrone god), she was struggling to cope with a lot of her own trauma as well as housing and poverty. We mutually agreed to call it off and we’re still buddies almost a decade later.