It’s so quiet in here with only my posts, so here’s a general question to invite you to talk a little about yourself.

If you don’t feel comfortable sharing your story, maybe tell us about what about shibari fascinates you at the moment?

    • Neeka@lemmynsfw.comOPM
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      11 months ago

      Hahaha, I remember finding this as well, lovely graphic that somehow is both innocent and alluring!

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    8 months ago

    OkCupid date asked to do specifically that. It was the most erotic thing of my life.

    After that I started a little tying with dates and we all enjoyed ourselves.

    Now I’m mostly interested, I don’t have the time to practice.

    I do enjoy your content a lot.

  • Neeka@lemmynsfw.comOPM
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    11 months ago

    As for me, I started a long time ago as a rope fetishist, who then got curious as to how to get more of it into the bedroom.

    After a lot of knotwork I found shibari to be a lot more sensual and flowy, and thoroughly fell in love and spent inordinate amounts of time and money to learn it.

    Meanwhile, I lost my rope fetish, but seem to have plenty of excuses to use ropes anyway ;)

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    11 months ago

    The GF now wife really seems to like it quite a bit. I’m happy to oblige :) She got me some books for my Bday this year, but I’m still very much a beginner. She does want to do some suspensions SOMEDAY but we have a LOT of learning to do first.

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      11 months ago

      Yay, good on you for wifing her!

      You have a lot of fun ahead of you, take your time and enjoy the journey.

      If you get impatient, may I suggest looking into weekend intensive classes? A couple of those and some practice may let you suspend safely in months (depending on your teachers and dedication to practice ofc).