They took off on their bike earlier and when they came back I asked where they’d been. They gave me an odd answer and I smelled a rat. I pointed out the inconsistencies and still they doubled down on the “why don’t you trust me”. I was unwell with worry at this point, I didn’t know what to expect.

I don’t advocate for going through people’s data but I was a little bit insane at this point and I needed to know what was going on, consequences be damned. So after they fell asleep I looked at their phone. The last app that had been opened was 2good2go. The fucker had gone and picked up a free burrito without me and tried to hide it from me 🤣

What does it all mean?? Should I confront them or let it slide??

    • neamhsplach@beehaw.orgOP
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      Clearly!! I’d do crazy things for a burrito too, maybe that’s why they kept it a secret 🤔

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          What kind of a world are we living in where someone can’t just get something to eat? No wonder the guy is out there stress eating burritos, he was panicking that she’d find out he’d had a whole calzone to himself for lunch and only got her a limp sandwich.

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          No diet that I’m aware of, so hiding it from me doesn’t make sense from that POV. Maybe they just didn’t want to share??

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    Seems like quite an unhealthy relationship if you don’t trust him and went through his phone. It seems like he would be right not to trust you.

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      Yeah, there are a couple issues here. First being that they felt the need to hide the burrito from their partner, and the other one being that their partner had violated privacy by going through their phone without consent.

      No win scenario, honestly. Sit and stew that they didn’t trust you with the food info or confront and watch the situation explode as you reveal you didn’t trust them more.