• lugal@lemmy.ml
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    9 months ago

    Don’t call animals “things” but I see what you mean

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      9 months ago

      Why?

      I could have used it I guess as I don’t know the gender of it, but what’s wrong with things? I love animals and I didn’t mean to use it in a derogatory way.

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        9 months ago

        Why didn’t you say:

        Hate to anthropomorphise animals but it looks like it’s smiling, like a big shit eating grin.

        Or stuff still feels more neutral. But I’m not a native speaker of English so maybe “thing” isn’t as derogative as it sounds to me

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          9 months ago

          in this case, thing isn’t derogative to a native speaker, in my opinion. I can see where your confusion is, though.

          my tip would be to look at the other words in the sentence to try and grasp the tone of the entire statement. I know it’s difficult, but you’ll get there… good luck!

        • Fushuan [he/him]@lemm.ee
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          9 months ago

          Thing is a synonim of stuff and they don’t really have any kind of different connotation. Stuff might be more coloquial, which doesn’t mean thing is formal, I wouldn’t use stuff in a form setting, that’s all.

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            9 months ago

            I just today watch an episode where someone said “you are the thing I love most” to a person as if it was a sign or something but it’s just selective memory.

            I’m sorry for being stupid I guess. We are all here to learn.