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Cake day: February 5th, 2025

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  • Ok, you clearly didn’t mean to do that. It was a mistake. You’re not an asshole. If anything, the issue is how this girl was impacted by it. We wont know for sure, but you can get an idea. Perhaps ask a bunch of women you know how they would take it if they experienced that. You might feel relieved by their responses. Shoot. They might even share experiences that will help you realize that maybe she even took it as a mistake herself and she didn’t stop to help you not feel embarrassed even further. Not everyone defaults to “that was sexual assault!” in all cases. She might have thought, “Did this awkward guy that avoided eye contact and had an alarmed expression at the last second just smack my ass cause he was sexually assaulting me in front of all these people while the bus almost hit me and then stopped to talk about it with me? Nah, there’s no way. There has to be another reason…Anyway, I’m hungry. Can’t wait to get home and eat my leftovers.”

    Personally, I disagree with that 100% chance of a #metoo story. I’m not saying it isn’t possible or probable, but not 100% certain. I would be interested in hearing what your women friends say about it. Pls report back if you ask them.