Germany allows loli content, so long as it does not “produce or reproduce an actual event.” It is illegal in Lithuania. This obviously does not say whether the content is/isn’t allowed by your server host.
If you’re looking for a privacy/speech respecting provider you might find this article semi-useful: https://crippled.media/free-speech-vps-providers-put-to-the-test it compares 7 “Free Speech” server providers based on the content they allow and their various terms.
I think @[email protected] wrote the article, actually.
Just created https://burggit.moe/c/yandere_hentai_unhinged