What a backhanded thing to say. I refer to the general issues men are facing as a group, and you snidely judge us as having personal issues with such self-assuredness that you are morally right in doing so. You come across as arrogant and condescending. Men, as a group, are not doing well on many different metrics. That does not mean that every specific man is not doing well, or that I am not doing well. So, here’s some unsolicited advice, since you are keen on giving it to others – Don’t give people unsolicited advice, and kindly don’t mention me again.
What is it about being goth that you enjoy? As I’ve aged, I’ve found it difficult to maintain professional employment while having a gothic style. Depends on the field, but most places frown on it.