Regardless of good or bad, right and wrong, she DECIDED to make a living by having other human listen and look at her. That was her choice. She’s very successful at it. She knew the risk, there’s nothing surprising about such a gossip or sad. That’s part of the job she CHOSE to do. If you’re a sewage worker (which I highly respect) you know you will get into shit. Same here. Different shit.
I feel your pain. Every guy, all the time, neverending. Sucking, sucking, sucking.