Verenata [none/use name]

Haha that’s so good

I have not seen this tshirt but it’s sounds cool 💪

Comrade

We can go back to just using American if you’d like?

Get one of those t-shirts that has like:

“Don’t fuck with a job title Who was born in birth month Who loves his wife, loves freedom Loves gun and if that offends you Then get out of my way”

Then you got a mad cosplay

Good luck!!! I’ve cast a spell to help!

CRANK YOUR HOGS SIBLINGS!

It’s so stupid but I’d by lying if I hadnt tried it once because of peer pressure.

Societal beauty expectations go brrrrrr.

Bipartisanship is politics all the time baby woooohoooo

Feels more like a way to make skipping meals trendy.

I don’t think so, it might not be for some people but it’s not a fad diet like keto.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/nutrition-and-healthy-eating/expert-answers/intermittent-fasting/faq-20441303

Yey!!! Awwwh rooting so hard for you

Edit: to be a couple, I’m rooting for that. Not you being friends. Just to be very clear.

Fingers crossed thats so brave!!

Advice?

Breathe, chill, roll a j, vibe 💅

From the sounds of it you two are close and mean a lot to each other. You’ve said your peace and given her agency and choice. Cool beans.

If she says no and she meant as a friend will you still stay friends?

Multiple people in this thread my dude. This is what happens when extremism isn’t shut down.

Edit: I was so harsh earlier, I want to say sorry. This whole thread was horrific to read and genuinely terrifying. Watching men decide for me or other women that we owe our abusers time to reform them and we are the problem for pushing back. It’s a lot. Its scary, it shows men haven’t learn the basic lesson we’ve being screaming for centuries “stop making decisions for us and taking away our agency”. A key lesson a lot of people in this thread could do with internalising imo.

I think what you are doing to help big brother these peeps is great honestly.

I just worry that without condemning it as the extremism it is, we get comments making a serious suggestion for sex coaches for incels in a supposed safe space for leftists. How does that happen?

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Projection!!!

Says the person who thinks women should sex coach incels out their victims complexes 🤣

Sorry whos the one who decided woman owe incels that. Thanks for deciding what our bodies and role in this debate is. Lmao.

Unaddressed transphobia? If being disgusted with yours views on women, incels and comfort women is transphobia then sure. Idiot.

Soz you think that cos you creep women out you are entitled to your own personal comfort women.

Is it fuck, stop trying to paint me as a conservative or brain wormed cos I don’t feel sorry for people who hated women for nothing. Soz you felt attacked, you should.

I’ve seen your comments, you’re literally the fucking problem with incels. No self awareness, no feminism, all victim complex.

Miss me with that shit 💅

Well that’s wholesome but it’s not your job and also are they addressing how they view women? It’s okay to deprogram as an incel but if you haven’t addressed the subconscious or conscious misogyny that lead to that extremism then it’s a plaster on a wound, not a cure i feel.

Dude we have tried, I can’t speak for anyone else but I didn’t abandon the men in group because they were incels, we fought to reign in their shit, we educated them on what women actually look for, we gave them everything other men in this chat have claimed will help incels and from experience it never ever works because when someone is in an ideology that blames women they inherently don’t trust us/value us/value our opinion because they are already blaming us.

In fact trying to give incels a chance is what lead to several of my friends being stalked, harassed and bullied and that’s not discussing my own experience.

In the end someone in this thread literally suggested the idea of sex coaches for incels, that’s insane. That is a disconnect that I can’t begin to discuss. We do not need comfort women for incels to stop being hateful.

And of those confused young boys only one group choses to blame women and join an extremist group that has killed people because of its views.

That’s not normal and it’s not something to be treated like it’s normal. It’s insane.

That is literally perfect thank you <3

Sorry pal, usually God awful takes like that present with the above.

It’s so fucking easy for you to decide women have to play a part in educating our abusers as a man. Dead fucking simple to decide that for us? Have you literally no fucking self awareness.

Yet again we speak our minds and men ignore us and bulldoze our point with their take on OUR existence.

There’s several women havs pointed out it’s rooted in misogyny and objectification in this very thread. There are reeeems of theory by women on male violence. Every bit is ignored by people like you cos of some sympathy for extremists.

Why is it when men misbehave its our job to fix you? Why can’t you fix yourselves?

Incels and men judging by yourself can not be talked to, will not listen and will never respect us and that’s clear as day by this thread and your insistence that you are right despite being not a woman or an incel.

Every time any women who literally knows why she rejected an incel tells them why, it’s ignored because they’d rather blame us or apologise for their bad behaviour.

No it’s men’s job to break through this ingrained misogyny, we as women have tried, incels doubled down. Can’t help those who don’t want to help themselves and certainly not when they abused us.