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  • “That doesn’t work for me.”

    Also,

    “You creating and mandating a plan for our future that doesn’t involve discussing my wants and needs shows that you don’t value them”

    I don’t have any idea what the rest of your relationship is actually like. From the little here, sounds like you’re ready to move on, and so is she. If she’s giving you that ultimatum from another country she may also be hoping you do the hard part and break up with her, relieving her of whatever feelings of guilt that might be associated. Remember though… No guilt is necessary from either of you to move on. You want different things from the time that you have, and that’s ok.