• rottingleaf
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    4 days ago

    Homeschooling is technically the opposite of fascist approach. As in “state being in charge” vs “parents being in charge”.

    That said, some parents are just too dumb to allow them full control over their child’s education. Just in my case it was their “try harder” attitude about school, while something like homeschooling would work much better.

    Imagine an autistic adult who never dropped the imitation and missed on most good things in life, trying to impose the same onto their autistic child who at least understands that imitation takes too much energy and isn’t worth shit (and is seen right through by NT people anyway), thinking that their fake smiles, stupid loud nonsense talk and even fake hobbies (as in those they know nothing about, but talk a lot in public) don’t look that, and also being scared shitless of the very idea of going to a therapist (“I’m/you’re NORMAL”, this is common in ex-USSR though), and, finally, actively sabotaging any idea to isolate their stupidity and ignorance to them. That would be my dad.

    Other than personal examples, there are good and bad parents and there are good and bad schools and there are good and bad education systems.

    Parents generally don’t groom their children to become cannon fodder, some education systems do ; parents generally don’t want their children to be fooled by politicians, and education systems are directly influenced by those politicians ; parents generally care for their own children to have some successes, while for Prussian-style school systems it’s normal that some are just discarded, if the majority becomes good drones.

    • r3df0x ✡️✝☪️@7.62x54r.ru
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      4 days ago

      I went to a special high school where there was an autistic kid who was homeschooled for middle school. He was one of the few people who didn’t fit in.

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        3 days ago

        If your point is that he somehow would “fit in” were he not homeschooled or in any case at all, being autistic, that’s exactly the kind of ignorant bullshit making me wary of mandatory public education, because the system is often defined by people of such opinions.