An example of what I mean:

I, in China, told an English speaking Chinese friend I needed to stop off in the bathroom to “take a shit.”

He looked appalled and after I asked why he had that look, he asked what I was going to do with someone’s shit.

I had not laughed so hard in a while, and it totally makes sense.

I explained it was an expression for pooping, and he comes back with, “wouldn’t that be giving a shit?”

I then got to explain that to give a shit means you care and I realized how fucked some of our expressions are.

What misunderstandings made you laugh?

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    Its less a misunderstanding I had as I grew up with Chinese speakers, but it is always fun to take a new grad student/postdoc out to lunch or something similar.

    Because every language has “filler words”. In English that is usually “uhm” or “like”.

    In Mandarin? It is “that one”. 那个, Nèi ge.

    And “nèi ge” sounds a LOT like the n-word. Fortunately I have found that most college towns and places that are used to an international community pick up on it pretty quick, but it is still REAL awkward when you get a side eye from a black person because this visiting scholar is trying to remember an English word.

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      13 days ago

      Haha I heard that a lot over there. Its a similar sound to the phrase “this one” or maybe “that one”. they both end in ge, but one starts with a ne sound, if I remember correctly. This was a long time ago