For me (as a programmer) it really varies a ton. I used to put in insane stretches, due to the medication I needed to take in the past and that is how I got used to things in college.
Now I work more regularly, but still can put in a solid 6+ hr day most of the time, and yet some days… yeesh I’m lucky if I can get a third of that. So I work more on other days to compensate.
Oof, I feel the hate for social media tradwife propaganda and throwing money into the delivery food hole 💀
y’all sound like people just doing what suits/pleases you and what’s better than that?
it’s also super satisfying in a relationship to have complementary strengths. like “look at us being SO EFFICIENT together” lol