Often in my lectures when I use the phrase “imperialist white-supremacist capitalist patriarchy” to describe our nation’s political system, audiences laugh. No one has ever explained why accurately naming this system is funny. The laughter is itself a weapon of patriarchal terrorism. It functions as a disclaimer, discounting the significance of what is being named. It suggests that the words themselves are problematic and not the system they describe. I interpret this laughter as the audience’s way of showing discomfort with being asked to ally themselves with an antipatriarchal disobedient critique. This laughter reminds me that if I dare to challenge patriarchy openly, I risk not being taken seriously.
I highly recommend reading the book because right now is what you’re doing
I don’t feel that blaming the evil patriarchy again is the correct path here.
I highly recommend reading the book because right now is what you’re doing
I don’t do “this”, I’m saying that using the excuse of patriarchy every time you want to push the blame off women is stupid.
Women are responsible for their dating choices.