• Drivebyhaiku@lemmy.world
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      And in your second paragraph, see how you had to add ugly to my statement to make it malicious and false, that is you projecting onto me, not me

      Ah so “barely even cosmetically complete” doesn’t register as you calling them aesthetically displeasing? Fuck off.

      The framing as it being a personal choice not to pursue those options are the thinnest veneer of setting yourself up for this reaction to be shocked and appalled that someone would call you out. Even if you were trans yourself framing it the way you did before would register as you being an ass to other people in your community.

      Troll behavior.

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        He is a good disingenuous troll.

        People who undergo affirmation surgery are told all those facts before hand. This person doesn’t know the process.

        I have a trans Best friend and asked if they just wanted to live as a gay man BECAUSE of the above facts. Thier response was " I want to live as a woman." Living a certain way is more important to some then others.

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          i mean feel free to voice your graceless, ignorant, self-important takes on the issues of a minority group you don’t belong to all you like, that’s your prerogative. but getting indignant about it when you’re called on it and eventually shown the door is infantile. grow up and take some responsibility for yourself man, you’re disrespecting yourself as much as anybody else.

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              if “bro respect yourself more than this” lands as an attack, and your go-to response is to signal how “hard” you are, you have deeper problems than being ignorant about trans care.

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                  oh shit i better write that down so i can bring it up to my therapist.

                  “called cis guy’s weirdly specific opinion about trans care ‘ignorant’ and his outsized vocal indignance at gentle well-meaning critique ‘infantile’, encouraged him to do better for his own sake <- IS THIS NARCISSIST BEHAVIOR?”

                  did i miss anything there?

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          Ah yes, “just stating your opinions” “echo chambers” and the calls that you are being oppressed and policed, that I am both a narcissist and a weak little trans weenie who needs to shut themselves away where I can’t hear your big strong ideas.

          It’s the full right wing bingo card. Do you lot ever get tired of clutching those pearls?

          Don’t answer I know you will die with those things in a death grip.

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            His modlog history also has some lovely 2016 anti-SJW flavour right wing troll cringe in it about cultural appropriation and “”“reverse racism”“”, too. Truly a sad person who showed up here with an agenda, try not to let the lowest common denominator here drag down your day, he’s so not worth it.

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              Oh I am not dragged down. I am an old troll counterpuncher from the old pre reddit flight days. If they try and take me down they will find I do not make it rewarding.

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                  Pfft! Really hit the bottom of the tank huh? This shit is so 2017 paint by numbers it’s not even good trolling. Philistine made me laugh though so points there.