I legitimately find it difficult to long term stay annoyed with people who have wronged me. I have close friends and family telling me how ridiculous it is I’m still in touch and friendly with people I used to consider friends but briefly cut them out after they treated me horribly. I can see the logic and feel as though I SHOULD hate certain people for how they’ve been in the past but I just don’t feel any anger or resentment and am quite happy to just forget the past. Is this weird and/or unhealthy?

  • joe@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I think most people are like this. It’s hard to hold on to actual hatred. Most of us ain’t got any time for that.

    • li10@feddit.uk
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      1 year ago

      You haven’t met my mother.

      She still gets extremely bitter and randomly brings up the fact that I ruined Peter Pan on ice for her by sulking about not getting ice cream during the interlude.

      That was 20 years ago and I was six…