• Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    20
    arrow-down
    4
    ·
    9 months ago

    What made you think they’re not being upfront and honest about their own feelings?

    • eatthecake@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      10
      arrow-down
      18
      ·
      9 months ago

      That they desctibe themselves as trying to decipher signals. If they said upfront that they were interested and asked how the woman felt they would presumably get some kind of answer. Ghosting is a pretty clear signal too.

      • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        16
        arrow-down
        4
        ·
        9 months ago

        Weird presumption. Someone giving you signals you need to decipher says nothing about how frank you’ve been with them. Some people just give you weird vague signals no matter how directly you ask them.

        Ghosting is a pretty clear signal too.

        lol