like in my head the four pillars of how you look are diet, exercise, skin care, and clothing/accessories. am i missing any big ones? also, where should i go for advice on how to improve on skin care and especially clothing? (i’m good on diet and exercise lol i used to see a nutritionist and she set me straight)

sorry if this is rambly and/or weird, im stoned off some weird european pseudo-weed

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    5 months ago

    That’s so insanely specific honestly are you trying to avoid people you know because you think they’re going to “go easy on you”? Because I feel like that’s begging for people with horrible body image standards (and no grounds to have them at all, maybe having completely virtual body image standards) to comment anyways

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      5 months ago

      nah im trying to avoid people i know because i have no friends lol

      but good point. mostly im just asking 1) how do i up my fashion game and 2) how do i get a skincare consultant who isn’t trying to sell me a product from their particular store? is that like a type of doctor or something?

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        I just do anonymous fitposting on Pleroma now since it’s so cloistered it’s like a large but semi-private group chat but I could’t tell you if online oomphies are going to give you correct fashion advice so idk. group chats were what I meant more. Also some places have the fun chance of a guy from Poast showing up and trying to roast you, then you can go on their profile and see they’re a literal child locator who hasn’t felt the touch of the sun in years.