• Goose@lemmy.world
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      10 hours ago

      Just because you don’t have any issues doesn’t mean other people don’t. I, myself, have a lot of anxiety when it comes to using urinals and have trouble sometimes. Why? No idea. Having to piss doesn’t override the anxiety, so you just end up feeling miserable.

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        10 hours ago

        Yeah, I just didn’t realize it was so common. Sorry, that sucks. Are you an otherwise confident and secure person?

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          9 hours ago

          Yes, other than pissing I’m pretty confident.

          No,. I have no idea why peeing in private is important to my lizard brain. It wasn’t when I was a kid.

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          It’s okay. Sorry I got snippy back at you. Funny enough, most of the time I feel as if I am very confident and secure. Naturally as people do I have my times where that slips, but I’d say 80% of the time I’m cool as a cucumber

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            No worries, I think a lot of people thought I was being an ass instead of honestly just having never thought about it. I wonder if it has something to do with growing up in a big family and playing sports and stuff. Like, I think I just became to desensitized to it. If I needed privacy to pee, I would probably wouldn’t have peed through all of high school and college lol.