Ok story time.
I played a set with my band at a house show the other night, and had a great time. Afterwards this woman comes up to talk with me and compliment my set. We have several drinks together, dance to the next bands songs and talk.
This person is extremely straight presenting, and yet even i can tell I’m being flirted with. I figure that she is quite attractive and I’m enjoying her company, so I guess I’ll give it a chance. Night ends, we exchange numbers…
And she gets into a company truck of a local rapacious logging company to drunk drive home!
I’ve never joined the police force. My principles are well attended. When you say she took on a job with the police department and dont clarify, it’s pretty easy to infer she’s a cop, that’s most of who they hire. So you’re obfuscating her job amongst the cops. I know 40% of cops beat their wives, so are you under duress? PM someone if you are. So what did she do? Clean the desks for a contractor? Was she a rep for a german sheppard puppy mill? A consultant on how to be more racist? And how was her working for the cops good and cool?